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5 Money Matters to Consider If You Divorce Just Before Retirement

Part of our Finance Fundamentals series

  • Northwestern Mutual
  • Sep 28, 2022
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If you’re getting divorced and approaching retirement, it becomes all the more important to protect your future financial security. Photo credit: Heide Benser/Getty images
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While overall divorce rates in the U.S. have been steadily declining for years, the rate of divorce among Americans aged 50 and older roughly doubled between the 1990s and 2010, according to Pew Research. There’s even a name for the phenomenon: gray divorce.

But couples who divorce as they are nearing retirement face a distinct set of financial planning challenges. They have to divide what may be decades’ worth of accumulated assets and plan for the cost of two retirements rather than a shared one. And to make matters worse, they also have a limited amount of time and energy to regroup and re-accumulate assets individually.

If you’re in this situation, you should take steps to protect your future financial security. As you go through this process, here are five key components you’ll want to consider.

The value of your assets

Any decisions about “who gets what” should be based on the current or appraised value of your assets. Keep in mind that reductions may be applied to items such as qualified accounts to determine an after-tax value. You’ll also want to consider whether you’ll be able to tap into those assets in the future if need be. You can make withdrawals from a retirement account fairly easily but you can’t access the value in your home unless you sell it or take out a home equity loan.

Social Security claiming strategies

You might be surprised to learn that even if you get divorced, you may still have the option to claim Social Security based on your ex-spouse’s work record. This is something you might want to consider if that could net you a bigger benefit than claiming Social Security based on your own work record. There are some caveats:

  • You must have been married for at least 10 years and be unmarried at the time you file for Social Security.
  • Your former spouse must have filed for his or her own Social Security benefits, or your ex-spouse is at least 62 and you have been divorced for at least two years.
  • If you happened to be born before January 2, 1954 and are divorced after at least 10 years of marriage but not remarried, you can file what the IRS calls a “restricted application.” This means you take your spousal benefit from your ex-spouse’s record at age 66 and wait until age 70 to take your own benefit, when it has earned four years of delayed retirement credits.
  • Finally, if you were married for at least 10 years and did not remarry until after age 60 and your ex-spouse has passed, you may be able to choose to claim Social Security as a widow(er) and receive 100 percent of his or her Social Security benefit for life (this percentage would be reduced if you chose to take your widow(er) benefit before your full retirement age).

While you can claim only one Social Security benefit at a time, it certainly pays to check out all the available options.

Social Security is an important part of your financial plan.

Your financial advisor can show you how Social Security will work to reinforce your retirement savings. And they’ll show you how it can help you live the life you want in retirement.

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Health insurance coverage

If you had been covered under your spouse’s workplace health insurance, you’ll have a choice to make: Obtain coverage independently through the Health Insurance Marketplace (https://www.healthcare.gov/), or stay on your ex-spouse’s insurance under the Consolidated Omnibus Budget Reconciliation Act (COBRA). COBRA typically offers health insurance coverage for a period of 18 months to people whose employment ends or who would otherwise lose coverage, and that coverage window extends to three years if the reason you are losing your medical coverage is that you are getting divorced. The three-year extension applies to people of any age, but it can be an especially valuable feature for people who are nearing retirement but not yet eligible for Medicare.

Long-term care preparation

If you’ve made plans for long-term care, you may be tempted to save money by changing those plans. Long-term care is, of course, something you hope you’ll never need. But if you do — and you don’t have a plan in place to cover the cost of care — the financial consequences can be devastating, especially as you face your senior years as a single person.

Estate planning adjustments

If you and your soon-to-be ex-spouse have an estate plan in place, you likely developed your will or trust and other documents as a couple, with each of you listed as beneficiary and having power of attorney for the other. If so, don’t delay in making new designations. If you have children, update your will or trust to reflect your new situation, potentially naming a new legal guardian for minor children (if you have them) or making provisions for the continued support of your kids if you eventually choose to remarry.

Divorce at any age is challenging. But if you’re nearing retirement, there is often added financial pressure. That’s why it’s so important to carefully consider these five factors. Talk about them with your financial planner or professional. He or she can help you make more informed financial decisions that can give you a greater level of financial confidence as you begin the next chapter of your life.

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